Judgement from those I least expected

Why is it that other moms are so judgemental!

Never in my life did I think I’d hear half the things that I’ve been told. I won’t name names but someone who is in the family has actually said to me “wow you haven’t really lost any weight since the baby” mind you before Nova was born I got these comments from her “wow you’ve really put on the weight” OR “wow your legs have gotten big!” 🤬 WHO SAYS THAT TO SOMEONE!? Especially when you’ve been through it?

So I let those comments fester for a while before I said anything to my boyfriend. He decided to talk to her about it (I wouldn’t have been nice if I did 😅). He told her how I’ve been struggling with with my weight and how I just feel about myself in general. This women actually says “oh I completely understand I felt like that after my 3 kids.” THEN WHY WOULD YOU SAY THOSE THINGS TO ME!? Not only has she said them to me in private buts she’s said them in front of 5+ people!

Do you have anyone that you have struggled with just being blatantly being rude ALL THE TIME? Let’s talk about it! 📢

2 thoughts on “Judgement from those I least expected

  1. I relate to this so much. It really made me upset after I became a mom and realized how mean other moms can be. You would think since they also have kids they would understand? I also struggled a lot with my weight. I was 125lbs before I had kids and now I’m 185lbs. I struggled a lot with accepting myself and this new almost foreign body I lived inside of. It definitely doesn’t help when people make comments about as if you don’t know.

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