If it’s not one thing it’s another 😮‍💨

Ugh I know I’ve kind of disappeared but I’ve been so overwhelmed 😓 I’ve struggling with my mental health pretty bad.

Yesterday was the 2 year anniversary of my grandmas death. She wasn’t just my grandma, she was my birthday twin, best friend and an important mother figure to me. So it was already a rough day before it got made worse.

Why is it that people can’t just mind their business and respect a child’s parents decisions!? If I don’t want to do something why can’t it just be left at that!? Making decisions for MY child causes some sort of argument or pisses someone off, it never fails.. Yes I know, our say is what matters, but SO MANY people feel they have a right to decisions that involve her as well.

I’m so tired of feeling like I’m walking on eggshells all the time. I’m so tired of feeling like I have to kiss a** and put my feelings about my child aside to keep the peace. I’M TIRED OF FEELING LIKE I CANT SPEAK UP! All so I don’t make someone mad.

I will no longer be making others happy. I’m finally putting my foot down. After being disrespected time and time again, I won’t stand for it anymore! I will be returning the same amount of respect others give me, NONE.

This mama bear is angry and not putting up with the disrespect anymore.

Thank you for listening to me rant 😅 just getting it out is a huge relief!

I hope this makes someone realize that we don’t need to take disrespect anymore! We can stand up and speak up for ourselves! It shouldn’t matter who it makes mad! HOW WE FEEL MATTERS!! If they don’t like it, well don’t let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya 🙃🤷🏼‍♀️